说好这句话,娃从恨你到爱你!

说好这句话,娃从恨你到爱你!


生活中,和孩子的交流,多数是通过语言的。一语爱人,一语伤人。当孩子发生状况时,怎么控制住自己的情绪,说出“高逼格”的话,是聪明爸妈应该学会的。今天的这几句金句,虽取自国外,但道理是相通的。


Harmful:Because I said so!

这是我说的,你要听!

Beneficial:I know you want to play a little more,but we have to go to see grandma.

我当然知道你想多玩会儿,不过,我们真的该去看看外婆哦~


Harmful:Stop crying.

把眼泪给我收回去!

Beneficial:I know how bad you feel.I'd be sad too.

我知道你很伤心,毕竟,我也很难过~


Harmful:If you don't eat your cereal,you'll stay weak and small.

你要是吃不完饭,就会长得挫!

Beneficial:If you eat your cereal,you'll be clever and strong like dad.

如果你好好吃饭,一定会像爸爸一样聪明和强壮~


Harmful:You're doing it wrong.Give it to me!

你这么做错了!把它给我!

Beneficial:Let me show you a neat trick to do it quickly.

我有个小技巧,来试试如何搭得更快些吧~


Harmful:I see you're anxious.

你怎么这么忧虑。

Beneficial:Let's talk about it.

我们谈谈这个问题吧~


Harmful:Let's get going.How long do I have to wait for you?

赶紧出发!你到底还要让我等你多久?

Beneficial:Race you to get dressed and ready!

让我们比赛看看谁先准备好出门~


Harmful:Take it!Just stop crying!

给你,不准哭了!

Beneficial:I understand,but you know I can't allow it.

我理解你的心情,不过你也知道,我不能允许你这样做~


Harmful:If you wash the dishes,I'll give you candy.

你洗完了这些餐具,我就给你糖果吃!

Beneficial:Remember when you washed the dishes the other day?You helped me so much!

你记得你那天帮我把餐具洗干净了吗?你简直帮了我一个大忙呢~


Harmful:How do I know?

你问我,我问谁去?!

Beneficial:I don't know that yet,but I'll tell you when I find out.

我也不知道这个问题,不如我找到答案后,和你分享?


Harmful:Stop watching TV.

不准再看电视了!

Beneficial:Let's go and play a game!

一起去玩游戏吧?


Harmful:Look what you've done!

看看你惹的祸!

Beneficial:I know you didn't mean to,but be more careful next time.

我知道你本意不是像这样,但是下次记得小心些~


Harmful:Look at Peter.He always come back home on time,unlike you.

看看人家小明,从来都是按时回家,哪像你?!

Beneficial:Try to come back on time.It's very important.

一定要尽量按时回家哦,这很重要哦~

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